Are you a Good Psychic Friend?
I’m psychic. As a kid growing up in the Midwest I didn’t know what that was. In fact, it just seemed like something was wrong with me. I was so much more sensitive than everyone around me! On the bright side though I was the best listener and helper for my friends in need.
As I grew older, however helping those friends in need started to tire me out. It seemed like everyone I knew was in turmoil and wanted my advice. It became so tiring for me that at one point I considered walking away just to get some peace and quiet!
There’s a Reason People Really Love their Psychic Friends
When you’re psychic, you have to be extra vigilant in your friendships. I just wanted to help the people around me, but I was doing it at my own expense. I was creating dependent relationships (my friends needed my psychic advice desperately). It’s taken more than fifteen years or trial and error, but I have finally learned how to be a good psychic friend. It isn’t always easy, but it’s always the best choice in the long run.
Here are five important tips to help you be a good psychic friend:
- Wait until you are asked for advice. Before offering or giving it. Rather than jumping on some else’s “challenge” because you intuitively know the answer, allow that person to move through their process at their own pace. If and when they are ready assume they will ask.
- Just saying no makes you a good psychic friend too! Often people want rescue rather than advice. People learn from their challenges. Sometimes it’s a great idea to let them.
- Although you could probably have many intuitive insights about what your friend is saying, it’s best to turn down the volume of your intuition while they are talking. Let them have their own experience!
- Walk away. Since, as a psychic you can probably feel the angst of your friends, you may find it hard to take care of yourself at the same time. If you’re energetically and emotionally clear, you can listen to your friend’s woes ‘til the cows come home – however, if not – just walk away. At least temporarily! Spend some time rejuvenating your energy, getting exercise, meditating – whatever it takes to get you nice and clear –and then you can go back to supporting your friend.
- Ask for it. Directly. Many sensitive people have a hard time asking for help because they don’t want to cause any drain on their friends. They also want to be a good psychic friend (they know only too well what that is like!). But in a truly balanced friendship, no matter how sensitive you are, you can still ask your friends for information, guidance and assistance. Give your friends a chance to help you – the way you have helped them so many times!
These five simple rules could make all the difference in creating happy, healthy, supportive friendships with people who really rock your world. Some of these tips may take a bit to master, but eventually – if you keep working on it – you’ll get it.