One of the biggest complaints I hear from my clients, students, and community is about feeling stuck in life. When, despite putting the hard work in, they feel like they’re just not reaching their goals.
Different from being lazy or experiencing failure, energetic constipation is rampant right now and is directly related to soul evolution and growth. Luckily, once you understand what Energetic Constipation really is, your “problem” will begin to clear up.
Let’s first determine if your feeling stuck in life energy is Energetic Constipation.
Symptoms of Energetic Constipation
If you’re suffering from energetic constipation, it means you’ve tried everything and yet you’re really feeling stuck in life. It’s more than COVID. It’s more than a job you hate. It’s not about laziness either. Here are a few of the signs. You:
- May feel resentful that you’ve tried so hard to move forward in life, and yet it’s not happening
- Feel like you’ve worked too hard on yourself for very little result
- Watch friends melting almost easily into their own successes
- Have an almost never-ending “list” of things you need to “fix” about yourself that you have been continually working on (to no results)
If you said yes to the above, you’re likely experiencing Energetic Constipation. And this is not a bad thing! Read on to find out why!
The Exciting Cause of Feeling Stuck in Life with Energetic Constipation
While you may think it means feeling stuck in life, Energetic Constipation actually means exactly the opposite.
When you’re doing your “work” on yourself, by considering how you place yourself in the world, looking at the “why’s” behind your decisions, and exploring who you are, you’re living consciously. Every time you learn more about yourself or you accept more parts of yourself, or love yourself more completely, you’re affecting your core beliefs. And this is the work the Universe requires in order to grow and evolve your soul.
The “Problem” isn’t really a problem
When you shift and grow at such a deep level, everything around you has to shift as well. This means your job needs to evolve. Your relationships with family and friends need to shift. Even your relationship with your health needs to change. When you make changes at the deepest levels there is simply a reverberating affect that occurs through every aspect of your being and much of this is unseen and unexpected.
Deep, soul level change most commonly manifests in our lives without us even noticing! For example, perhaps you notice that you’ve been setting boundaries at work without thinking twice about it for the past couple of months or you realize that the men you’ve been surrounding yourself with are valuing your ideas now.
That Feeling Stuck in Life Experience is NOT about being stuck
Like attracts like – and as you shift and grow, what you naturally and innately attract to you shifts and grows as well. The Feeling stuck in life feeling, then is not about being stuck but more about allowing for the universe to take the time needed to bring to you what now aligns with you. Maybe that’s a new job or a new home or a better hobby. Perhaps that’s a happier outlook or it’s the inspiration to finally write your book.
Whatever it is, if you can allow yourself to relax into the Energetic Constipation, and simply take care of yourself, things in your life WILL begin to line up. Your Soul and the Law of Attraction can only work so fast!
How to get out of Feeling Stuck in Life
The more you push for change that you can see, the more you will not see any change. It’s impossible to predict how your newfound belief that you’re lovable (because you did your inner work) will manifest itself in your life. If you spend your time looking for a new love to come in because you changed that belief, you’re most likely going to miss whatever changes you’re REALLY experiencing. So, relax. And avoid having any expectations!
As you can see, true energetic constipation (not laziness or giving up) means you’re doing your work!