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Are You Psychic? 5 Tips on How to Be a Good Psychic Friend

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I’m psychic. As a kid growing up in the Midwest I didn’t know what that was. In fact, it just seemed like something was wrong with me. I was so more sensitive than everyone around me! On the bright side though I was the best listener and helper for my friends in need. As I grew older, however helping those friends in need started to tire me out. It seemed like everyone I knew was in turmoil and wanted my ear or advice. It became so tiring for me that at one point I considered walking away from my friends because at least that way I would have some peace and quiet!

What I didn’t understand at the time is that when you’re psychic, you have to be extra vigilant in your friendships. I just wanted to help the people around me, but I was doing it at my own expense and I was creating dependent relationships (my friends needed my psychic advice). It’s taken more than fifteen years or trial and error, but I finally know how to manage my friendships to keep them in balance. Being a good psychic friend isn’t always easy, but it’s always the best choice in the long run.

Here are five important things I’ve learned about being a good psychic friend:

  • Wait until you are asked for advice before offering or giving it. Rather than jumping on some else’s “challenge” because you intuitively know the answer, allow that person to move through their process at their own pace. If and when they are ready assume they will ask.
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  • I know this seems mean but sometimes you actually need to say, “no” when asked for help. Often people want rescue rather than advice – if you think your friend might want the former, it’s time to back off. People learn from their challenges – so handing the “fix” over to someone else can take away from everything they could subsequently use to grow.
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  • Although you could probably have many intuitive insights about what your friend is saying, it’s best to turn down the volume of your intuition while they are talking. Let them have their own experience!
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  • Walk away. Since, as a psychic you can probably feel the angst of your friends, you may find it hard to take care of yourself at the same time. If you’re energetically and emotionally clear, you can listen to your friend’s woes ‘til the cows come home – however, if not – just walk away. At least temporarily! Spend some time rejuvenating your energy, getting exercise, meditating – whatever it takes to get you nice and clear –and then you can go back to supporting your friend.
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  • Ask for it. Directly. Many sensitive people have a hard time asking for help because they don’t want to cause any drain on their friends (they know only too well what that is like!). But in a truly balanced friendship, no matter how sensitive you are, you can still ask your friends for information, guidance and assistance. Give your friends a chance to help you – the way you have helped them so many times!  

These five simple rules could make all the difference in creating happy, healthy, supportive friendships with people who really rock your world. Some of these tips may take a bit to master, but eventually – if you keep working on it – you’ll get it. 

10 replies
  1. Debbie
    Debbie says:

    I have really been struggling with this. Have a very hard time being around people and can’t seem to make any friends. Don’t know if I am giving something off that I am unaware of. Just yesterday, I had tea with an acquaintance, and after I left, I just wanted to cry. A deep sadness in my chest. There was nothing to indicate why I was feeling this way. It was just a casual conversation, nothing too deep. I even feel this around my daughter, son and just about everyone I encounter. Anyone else experience this?

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    • Danielle
      Danielle says:

      Hi Debbie,
      You are a very sensitive person – and it feels to me like you are picking up on the energy of others when you are around them. Those people don’t even have to be sad – you’re still unknowingly tapping into their sadness or hurt or pain and carrying it with you.
      You could try my Own Your Energy cd if you want to learn to work with your energy a little better – or I have a youtube video that you could search for and watch called “Energy Blocking Exercise.” Both of these things may help you work with your energy a bit more fully. Small tweaks that you can make to how you energetically interact with the world would help you greatly here. I hope this helps, Danielle

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      • Debbie
        Debbie says:

        Oops! Just as I was looking at your cd. I discovered you animal communication class! I do not have animals myself, but as I get working with them, I am going to start your class. Interesting how the universe works.. ahhhh..

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  2. Debbie
    Debbie says:

    Thank you so much for this. I will look into this and am certain that it will help me lighten up a bit! I also love your animal communication post. I am currently starting a mobile pet service, using the quantum biofeedback, scio device. I have found so far that the animals are very sensitive souls, and some with a lot of karmic implications. I forgive myself for all the times I wrapped my arms around a horse, and cried my eyes out. This is really good info to pass down to pet owners. Please keep me posted on animal communication classes. I am in Canada, so would have to be a webiner. All the best, Deb

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  3. Judy
    Judy says:

    Hi Debbie,
    Just thought I would respond to your question as to whether anyone else feels the same as you- and yes I do too. I also have a hard time being around people and often feel extremely tired or just “yuk” afterwards. I have worked with Danielle on some things to do to protect my energy which helps. I am now putting it out to the universe to bring me some conscious, sensitive friends!

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  4. Fay
    Fay says:

    Hi Danielle
    Oh yes I have been guilty of all five of these but by a lot of self examination I have realized the truth in all of these and hope that I am coming into a space of being a better psychic help to people as I did overdo it.
    The hardest one to master is asking for help for myself without being a burden on my friends.

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  5. Melanie
    Melanie says:

    I relate to you guys too!!
    I find that I care so much about people and can feel what they are feeling that I get very drained wanting to help. I also find it difficult to meet people who relate to whete I am spiritually so I’m iften quite lonely. I seem to have lost a lot of life long friends over last few years, I think it’s because I get too involved trying to give direction or perspective and it’s too much for them to handle. I need to work in really pulling back, sometimes I’m great but then I get frustrated and just want to help. Oh well I’ll keep working on it 🙂

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